
Humanizing Retail Leadership: Something AI Can’t Do
By Matt Brown and Mary Beth Garcia
As artificial intelligence transforms every corner of the retail landscape from inventory forecasting to customer analytics, one factor remains beyond its reach: the unique human ability to connect, empathize, and inspire.
Technology can crunch numbers, predict demand, and automate tasks, but it can’t read subtle cues, build trust, or motivate a team under pressure. In an era of automation, humanizing leadership is the competitive advantage that drives retention, performance, and customer loyalty.
This month, we’re exploring how retail leaders can strengthen the interpersonal skills that AI can’t replicate, and why these skills are the foundation for achieving results in today’s fast-paced and ever-changing environment.
As a retail training company specifically focused on developing the interpersonal skills that drive results, we value and teach the leadership and communication skills that tap into the power of emotional intelligence (EQ), because they’re essential for retail success. We’ve seen that the so-called “soft skills” like listening, empathy, fairness, adaptability, and building trust are, in fact, business-critical skills. They’re the leadership competencies and behaviors that create clarity, ensure productive dialogue, enhance morale and productivity, and create strong, cohesive, high-performing teams.
This is about more than being nice; it’s about being effective at unlocking performance and engagement through human connection. It’s about using productive communication and interpersonal skills to drive essential retail business metrics, from employee retention and talent development to customer experience, sales, shrink reduction, and more.
A Closer Look at Retail Leadership EQ vs. AI in Practice
While AI is helping advance many aspects of the retail environment, there are a number of situations where it is no match for the power of emotional intelligence. In specific scenarios, between store and field leaders and associates, and between associates and customers, EQ is not only more appropriate than AI, it’s more effective and gets better results.
Let’s take a closer look at some of these scenarios and the advantage skilled human leaders (EQ) offer over AI.
Empathy and Emotional Intelligence
- Humans can: Sense subtle emotions, show genuine care, and flex their approach to the needs of the moment, showing empathy.
- AI can: Provide data about customer sentiment or employee engagement trends, but it can’t truly feel or connect in a way that inspires trust and loyalty.
Building Relationships and Culture
- Humans can: Build trust over time, motivate teams through shared purpose, and create a sense of belonging that keeps people engaged. This comes from asking more than telling and listening to show your customers and associates they’ve been heard.
- AI can: Suggest best practices for team engagement, but it can’t create shared memories, role-model values, or build culture through personal presence.
Creative Problem-Solving
- Humans can: Think outside the algorithm, connect diverse ideas, and find innovative solutions in ambiguous or rapidly changing situations.
- AI can: Analyze past patterns and predict likely outcomes, but humans decide when to break the pattern to seize new opportunities.
Coaching and Mentoring
- Humans can: Sees potential in others, offer encouragement to strengthen skills, and adjust their coaching style based on the needs of others and their own personal style.
- AI can: Provide training modules and track progress, but it can’t personally connect to inspire someone to go beyond what they thought they could achieve.
Judgment in the Grey Areas
- Humans can: Make nuanced decisions when the right answer isn’t clear, balancing values, human impact, ethics, and long-term impact.
- AI can: Present options based on data, but the human leader must weigh the consequences and make the call.
Creating Memorable Experiences
- Humans can: Deliver warmth, humor, and surprise, the kind of moments that stick with a customer or associate for years. It’s the little things. They don’t mean much—they mean everything.
- AI can: Personalize recommendations, but it can’t credibly deliver the magic of an authentic human smile, a kind word, or an unexpected gesture.
Role-Modeling and Inspiring
- Humans can: Inspire by example, share personal stories, and lead with authenticity.
- AI can: Provide motivational quotes or scripts, but it can’t demonstrate real-life, real-world courage or integrity.
Ethical Leadership
- Humans can: Weigh moral and social considerations that data may miss, setting the standard for responsible behavior.
- AI can: Flag compliance issues, but human leaders, through their own actions and behaviors, shape the ethical compass of an organization.
The Value of Human Skills in the Digital Age
Just reading through the above scenarios, you can see the difference human-centered leadership makes, even—and maybe especially—in this tech-saturated world.
Leaders with strong “people skills” and emotional intelligence enjoy higher staff engagement, lower turnover, and high promotability and development of talent, all of which contribute to higher customer satisfaction and brand loyalty. When your associates trust their leaders and feel heard, they’ll be more engaged and able to focus on creating an exceptional experience for their customers.
This is true across all industries today, but it’s particularly critical in retail, where stress levels are high, external issues like tariffs and supply chain pressures are creating uncertainty and angst, retail crime and violent incidents are on the upswing, and staffing shortages are adding to burnout and exhaustion. AI can help streamline transactional tasks, but it can’t build a culture of trust. It can’t create an environment where people feel connected and supported. That takes humans. It takes strong leaders who understand what it’s like to work in retail and who have the confidence, skills, and strategies to make sure everyone is able to bring their best to work every day and thrive.
Developing the Human Side of Retail Leadership
As AI takes on more of the transactional and analytical work in retail, the leaders who will stand out are those who lean into what only humans can do—listening deeply, coaching with empathy, and creating an environment where people feel valued and inspired. Here’s an action plan to get started:
- Provide a foundation: Give your leaders and teams the tools and skills to be present, act with intention, and communicate more effectively, even under high-pressure, high-stress situations. For example, Everything DiSC® helps people understand their personality and behavioral styles and then intentionally adapt the way they communicate to interact more productively with another person, whether that’s a teammate, a direct report, or a customer.
- Make sure the training resonates with retail leaders: There are plenty of leadership training programs on the market, but as you know, retail is unique. We’ve found that it really does take a retail leader to know a retail leader. That’s why the most effective retail leadership training is the kind that is developed and delivered by people who’ve walked in their shoes and understand firsthand what the challenges are. If the program isn’t specific to the day-to-day realities your leaders are experiencing on the retail floor (or in the home office or the distribution center), it’s not going to be credible and it’s not going to fully serve their needs.
- Take a holistic view: Training is a process, not an event. Skills that aren’t practiced and reinforced won’t last. Particularly in the retail environment, it’s too easy to revert back to old habits and behaviors as things get busy and the demands and changes keep coming. To be most effective, the reinforcement and skill practice must be engaging, relevant to the real world of retail, and easy to access in the flow of work. This is one of the key advantages of the microlearning approach.
One of the great things about this digital age is that AI tools and automation are taking over some of the more transactional aspects of work. In the process, it’s freeing all of us up to focus more on the uniquely human skills and qualities that only we can deliver. Let’s take advantage of this opportunity to create more productive, inspiring, and enjoyable places to work and to serve our customers.
At MOHR Retail, we’re passionate about equipping leaders with the interpersonal skills that drive these results. If you’re ready to strengthen your team’s ability to lead in an AI-powered world, let’s start a conversation about how we can help you build a culture the prioritizes human-centered leadership.
About Matt Brown
Matt Brown is a results-oriented leader with a record of contributing positive results and a reputation for great energy and enthusiasm throughout his 30 years in retail. His journey started as a seasonal team member and for the last 10 years was a Zone Vice President at Michaels Arts & Crafts. He has a passion for teaching and sharing his operational knowledge and expertise with team members at all levels. Matt’s first engagement with MOHR Retail was as a client while at Michaels helping him build and empower an even more effective and successful team. Matt has also held additional roles such as Vice President of Operations - Retail Engineering and Optimization and Director of District Manager Development. Most recently, Matt and his wife Meredith have opened a martial arts school in Tyler, Texas where they saw a need and opportunity to support the youth in their local community by helping to empower their lives through the martial arts.